Comments for By Husbands For Husbands Blog http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com Helping Husbands Become Heroes! Wed, 16 Jan 2008 23:52:41 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on When is the right time? – Pt I. by Howard MacKinnon http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/30/when-is-the-right-time/#comment-917 Howard MacKinnon Wed, 16 Jan 2008 23:52:41 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/30/when-is-the-right-time/#comment-917 Thanks for your wonderful insight, as with any form of life changing events we should always study and look for the right solutions and follow our hearts... and it is never to late to say "I am sorry" for anything! Healing takes time, but worth it when you can forgive others. Thanks again, Howard Thanks for your wonderful insight, as with any form of life changing events we should always study and look for the right solutions and follow our hearts… and it is never to late to say “I am sorry” for anything! Healing takes time, but worth it when you can forgive others.

Thanks again,

Howard

]]> Comment on 80/20 Rule – Too Much On Your Plate… by Howard MacKinnon http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/09/20/8020-rule-too-much-on-your-plate/#comment-804 Howard MacKinnon Sun, 16 Dec 2007 01:05:14 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/09/20/8020-rule-too-much-on-your-plate/#comment-804 Great article, and Blog! I found you doing some research and looking for some very good blogs that are dealing with relationships and marriage, but especially all the aspects of divorce... Because, I believe that it has and will always be a factor of communication that is the key to any good relationship and that the lack of it, is where the trouble starts for every marriage... Whether it be money, alcohol and drugs, adutlery, pornography or and abuse in every form of mental, spiritual, and yes physical will all lead back to one thing, and that is no real communication... Keep up the good work on all of our behalf's. Thank you, Howard M. Great article, and Blog! I found you doing some research and looking for some very good blogs that are dealing with relationships and marriage, but especially all the aspects of divorce… Because, I believe that it has and will always be a factor of communication that is the key to any good relationship and that the lack of it, is where the trouble starts for every marriage… Whether it be money, alcohol and drugs, adutlery, pornography or and abuse in every form of mental, spiritual, and yes physical will all lead back to one thing, and that is no real communication… Keep up the good work on all of our behalf’s. Thank you, Howard M.

]]> Comment on Radio Interview – Dennis Rouse, Senior Pastor Victory World Church by ChiChi http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/10/radio-interview-dennis-rouse-senior-pastor-victory-world-church/#comment-699 ChiChi Fri, 02 Nov 2007 15:46:09 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/10/radio-interview-dennis-rouse-senior-pastor-victory-world-church/#comment-699 I know Pastor Dennis and Colleen Rouse. They are some of the finest pastors I have ever met. I used to go to their church and I only left because the Lord told me to go somewhere else for the sake of ministry, but I enjoy the authenticity of theyr teachings. It is so wonderful in this day and age to find preachers who are not into money and jets and celebrity issues, who just focus on the message and the Lord. Their ability to integrate races is truly God-given. They are walking in their calling! I know Pastor Dennis and Colleen Rouse. They are some of the finest pastors I have ever met. I used to go to their church and I only left because the Lord told me to go somewhere else for the sake of ministry, but I enjoy the authenticity of theyr teachings.

It is so wonderful in this day and age to find preachers who are not into money and jets and celebrity issues, who just focus on the message and the Lord. Their ability to integrate races is truly God-given. They are walking in their calling!

]]> Comment on 10 Romance Ideas.. by Diana Getzer http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/10-romance-ideas/#comment-672 Diana Getzer Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:13:46 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/10-romance-ideas/#comment-672 Why do you guys always want to surprise with a dinner out? Cook her a nice & romantic dinner at home. She'll love it & be surprised too. You'll see. Why do you guys always want to surprise with a dinner out? Cook her a nice & romantic dinner at home. She’ll love it & be surprised too. You’ll see.

]]> Comment on Marriage Expiration… by Bob Smith http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/06/08/marriage-expiration/#comment-482 Bob Smith Sun, 23 Sep 2007 23:57:30 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/06/08/marriage-expiration/#comment-482 Interesting concept. Might take a couple generations for it to really transition from the traditional indoctrination of today's society. What's the problem? If you're happily married then just renew it. I'm not sure a test would work, though. There's enough uneducated people who can barely vote much less write a 500 word essay on why they should stay married. Married folks would be a minority for sure. Some might think this may make folks take marriage for granted. If anything, it might remind each other (husband & wife) to be good to each other or else. Otherwise, if one or the other has gradually become unpleasant to be with, then you're kinda stuck; unless a divorce is considered. If it's not renewed, then so be it. Each goes their own separate ways and starts a new chapter in their lives. Divorcees do it all the time, usually at a costly price (not just financial). An expired marriage license could simplify the process to help each move on without being disgruntled couples trying to pull power-plays on each other before the deed is done. Interesting concept. Might take a couple generations for it to really transition from the traditional indoctrination of today’s society.

What’s the problem? If you’re happily married then just renew it. I’m not sure a test would work, though. There’s enough uneducated people who can barely vote much less write a 500 word essay on why they should stay married. Married folks would be a minority for sure.

Some might think this may make folks take marriage for granted. If anything, it might remind each other (husband & wife) to be good to each other or else. Otherwise, if one or the other has gradually become unpleasant to be with, then you’re kinda stuck; unless a divorce is considered.

If it’s not renewed, then so be it. Each goes their own separate ways and starts a new chapter in their lives. Divorcees do it all the time, usually at a costly price (not just financial).

An expired marriage license could simplify the process to help each move on without being disgruntled couples trying to pull power-plays on each other before the deed is done.

]]> Comment on When is the right time? – Pt I. by bebenibadoodles http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/30/when-is-the-right-time/#comment-439 bebenibadoodles Tue, 18 Sep 2007 00:47:45 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/2007/07/30/when-is-the-right-time/#comment-439 Can't wait for Steps 3 & 4. I like the part where you said that "Most women still have that little girl inside of them, that needs to be protected." I just wish all husbands or men for that matter would recognize that and not just depend on the woman in their life to do everything for them because that is just so not the way life works. Can’t wait for Steps 3 & 4. I like the part where you said that “Most women still have that little girl inside of them, that needs to be protected.”

I just wish all husbands or men for that matter would recognize that and not just depend on the woman in their life to do everything for them because that is just so not the way life works.

]]> Comment on Feedback From Wives by bebenibadoodles http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/feedback-from-wives/#comment-396 bebenibadoodles Wed, 12 Sep 2007 04:03:33 +0000 http://byhusbandsforhusbands.wordpress.com/feedback-from-wives/#comment-396 My Badoodles is the only person in the world in whose presence i could just be myself. I could brat around and be moody yet i would still get a hug and the attention which i live for. I am an attention freak and he feeds my ego everytime he tells me that i am beautiful and when he does... i always believe! My Badoodles is the only person in the world in whose presence i could just be myself. I could brat around and be moody yet i would still get a hug and the attention which i live for. I am an attention freak and he feeds my ego everytime he tells me that i am beautiful and when he does… i always believe!

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