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Blog Talk Radio September 24, 2007

Posted by Steve Worthy in Appreciation, Blogroll, Manhood, Marriage, Staying Married, romance.
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One of the largest and most powerful mediums used in communciation is the RADIO. There are a myriad of radio programs that span the gamit from sports to religion to politics. As many of you may already know we at By Husbands For Husbands have our own talk radio show that airs every Tuesday evening at 9PM called, you guessed it, “By Husbands For Husbands Talk Radio”. Our show offers news, views, and, interviews for men serious about becoming better husbands, fathers, and MEN.

Our show is hosted on Blog Talk Radio. We have been extremely pleased with their service. We are even more pleased to announce Blog Talk Radio has gone Social. BlogTalkRadio is the social radio network that allows users to connect quickly and directly with their audience. Their system offers free, live, call-in talk shows with unlimited participants that are automatically archived and made available as podcasts. No software download is required. Listeners can subscribe to shows via RSS into iTunes and other feed readers. Their network has produced tens of thousands of episodes since it launched in August of 2006.

Check out our new Home Page on Blog Talk Radio below – Click to see full picture. If you are a regular listener to our show, first we want to THANK YOU. Now we want to hear from you. You can sign up at Blog Talk Radio and become a – “HERO” – regular listener and provide us with instant feedback via chat or comments live while we’re doing the show. Its incredible and we welcome your feedback and input because that is what makes our show so popular.

Blog Talk Radio Page

www.byhusbandsforhusbands.com

Guys, have you ever bought any of these? September 22, 2007

Posted by Steve Worthy in Appreciation, Getting Married, Husbands are doing, Manhood, Marriage, Marriage Jokes, Staying Married, Things to do, romance.
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Maxi Pads…

Have you ever purchased any of these for your wife?

I grew up in a large family, two older brothers and four sisters, where I was the youngest. So when I was of age, around 10, I was often sent to the store by my mother or my sisters. My mother typically wanted me to get eggs, milk, cereal or bread. My sisters sent me to the store for “PADS”. As a young boy, I had no idea what “PADS” were. My sisters would send me to the store with an old box of “PADS” that I could use as a benchmark. Now bear in mind I had no idea what these were used for..thus the funny looks as I stood in line to purchase them were puzzling.

Even once I realize what they were used for I didn’t immediately stop going to the store for my sisters. I simply asked the, bagger – as they snickered – to “Please Double or Triple bag these”. However, my sisters were immensely grateful that they had a brother that would put what little manhood – I was 10 – on the line to assist them in their time of need.

As a husband, I am often sent to the store. Now guys I’m sure you can relate or have been in this situation yourself; you are in line about to ring up the first item and you get a call from your wife and she says, “Can you get me some pads”. You begin to scream inside, “NNNNOOOOOOOO, not pads, anything but those”. You begin to think what if someone sees me in the “PAD AISLE”. This feeling of dread is felt by most men. But, I have a different perspective.

How does it make your wife feel when about you? My wife stated, “I really appreciate it when you do this for me, one I feel special and two, I know you are secure in your manhood when you buy them for me.” Guys, I can remember one day when I purchased some “PADS” the cashier made such a big deal about it. She told the other cashiers and the Store Manager (Female) standing within ear-shot, “I wish my husband would do this for me.” It’s the simple things within a marriage that make your wife feel special.

So go ahead, ask your wife if she needs any “PADS” and Go get em boys..

Radio Interview – Bryan Davidson – Founder – SPIRITUAL Innovations September 18, 2007

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Bryan Davidson

September 18th @ 9PM – Bryan Davison, Founder SPIRITUAL Innovations

Join us as Steve and Gerry chat with Bryan Davidson about the spiritual conversations that husbands should have with their wives and their children.

Bryan Davidson, a catalytic leader, thinker and writer, is a ministry entrepreneur, and spiritual conveyor. He is fascinated with the enormous potential for a new spiritual awakening in this generation. Led by the desire to boldly wade the sea of cultures, including the Post-modern and Post-Christian culture, he wants to see the world experience revolutionary change.

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Sick Family… September 17, 2007

Posted by Steve Worthy in Appreciation, Hero Moments, Manhood, Marriage, Staying Married.
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Sick Family

Well its that time of year. My daughters are in school and the flu and cold season has begun to hit our family hard, including my wife. She is not the type to get sick, but when she does watch out. This blog can come off as a little self-promoting, but whatever, it is what it is. LOL.

As a husband what do you do when your entire family is sick. Now most of you would say, “I’d take care of them”. However there are a handful of men where this is only lip service and the wife, eventhough she is sick, continues to take care of the entire family. Well, I’m here to say to you guys who think this way, “STOP IT, STOP BEING A WIMP AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY.”

Ok, I got that out of my system. Seriously, when my family became ill my first inclination was prayer. As a husband, my first job is be the spiritual leader of my household. Thus, to take a posture of prayer should be your first thought and action. Pray for healing and patience (mainly for you). Since I have a house full of females I have to ensure I exercise a great amount of patience.

Second, was food. Do we have enough food, rather sick people food, i.e. soup, crackers, etc. So I went to the store and got them some stuff. Also, cooking I found this an excellent time to brush up on my culinary skills. Does it matter if I was boiling water for the soup? Nah, my girls appreciated it.

Next was my wife’s sinuses, she gets the worst sinus heahache, so I picked up some Sudafed and she has been feeling much better, but not 100%.

Now guess who’s showing signs of a cold, you guessed it Yours Truly. But, I’ll be ok, my girls will take care of dear ole dad. God Bless.

Is He Everything To You… August 23, 2007

Posted by Steve Worthy in Appreciation, Manhood, Things to do.
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Guys and Gals,

This is a most see video. The video’s a little fuzzy, but the message is loud and clear…Click Below…

EVERYTHING..

Radio Interview – Boyd Bailey August 21, 2007

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Boyd Bailey
August 24th – Boyd Bailey, Author and CEO

Boyd is the CEO and Executive Director of Ministry Ventures, with a vision of “Equipping Ministries for Christ!” They do this through specific and intentional coaching on the 5 Best Practices of Prayer, Board of Directors, Ministry Model, Administration and Fundraising which have been developed from the MV Standards of Excellence, a day and half seminar, and the MV Certification process.

Ministry Ventures can prepare and position all Christ-centered ministries for growth and maximize the impact of their ministry regionally, nationally and globally while providing proven, sustaining strategies that guarantee success.

Boyd is also the author of devotional entitled “Infusion – 90 Daily Doses of Wisdom, Truth and Encouragement” To learn more about this book click below..

INFUSION..

Boyd Bailey - Book

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When is the right time? – Pt. II August 16, 2007

Posted by Steve Worthy in Appreciation, Communicating, Hero Thought, Husbands are doing, Marriage, Romantic Husband, Staying Married, Uncategorized.
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Bad news

OK Guys, I’ve been getting a lot comments and emails about Steps #3 and #4 giving your wife some bad news. Lets do a quick recap for Steps #1 and #2:

(1) First let’s define – Bad News. Guys, hopefully you know your wife and her threshold to issues. The scale is from 1 to 10, with 10 being a great threshold for bad news and 1 being a low threshold. Please get a better understanding of this issue first.

(2)Second, you have to realize that no matter how strong (emotionally) you think your wife is, she is not. Most women still have that little girl inside of them, that’s needs to be protected, that needs emotional security that longs for affirmation from a male figure. So, please understand that armor of strength from your wife is a façade. She is not the callous, insensitive, uncaring person you think she is. I know some of you are saying, “Steve, you’ve never met my wife.”

Now for number #3:

Money in the Bank – Guys how much money do you have in the bank. No, not your Bank of America account, but the “Bank of Wife”. The biggest problem with most husbands, myself included, is we continously make withdrawals, emotionally, from our wife and expect her to be ok with it. This leaves our bank account in a deficit. Consquently, you must take a quick assessment of your account, if its negative, best believe that her reaction to the bad news will not be that great. If you have a positive bank account, then her reaction, depending on the severity of the news may allow for some grace.

How do you make deposits? First you limit the number of withdrawals and realize that you cannot spend all your money on Saturday, when you just got paid on Friday. Wives love the simple things. You can begin today by, “SINCERELY”, doing some of those little things she has asked you to do around the house. Also, after being in the military, I am a big believer for being on the offensive and the preemptive strike as often and as much as possible. This means you have to be proactive in the household:

(1) GIVE THE KIDS A BATH!!!
(2) DO THE DISHES
(3) COMB HER HAIR WHEN SHE GETS IN THE BED
(4) FILL HER CAR UP WITH GAS
(5) FOLD THE CLOTHES
(6) IRON HER’S AND THE KIDS CLOTHES ON SUNDAY NIGHT

Alright these were free of charge.

Number 4 later…